Dating a married man and self esteem
And when you’re not making love, sex eventually becomes bland, boring and stale.
Thankfully, your low self-esteem is not something that is out of your control.
There are ways to help yourself and your low self-esteem so that you can get out of your own head and get into your relationship.
There are great books like Self-Compassion and humorous books like Self Affirmations from Stuart Smalley.
And you’re the only one who can do anything about it.
Tackling your low self-esteem is a liberating event that helps you not only feel better about yourself but helps your lover feel more in love with you, too.
You question whether you’re a desirable person and you question whether your partner really loves you or not – or if they would love you if they knew all the things that you know about you.
When you have low self-esteem, you’re often too wrapped up in your own head to really be available to your partner.
For help in the bedroom, there’s also a great radio show called After Dark Radio by my friend Ande Lyons with tips to “get out of your head and get into bed”.
Even though your self-esteem doesn’t just hurt you, you’re the only one who is in control of it.
But what many people with low self-esteem realize is that not only does low self-esteem hurt your own feelings about yourself, it also hurts your relationship, too.
When you have low self-esteem, you question your own adequacy.