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In this second phase, the mask comes off and the Narcissist starts to reveal their true colours.
The shift could be gradual or almost seemingly overnight.
Their target is the greatest thing since sliced bread.
Here the Narcissist is ecstatic, full of hopes and dreams.
They don’t return your phone calls, they don’t keep a single promise and you’re starting to suspect that they might be involved with someone else.
The target is left baffled and confused and wondering what they did wrong to cause such an abrupt turnaround.
They will talk and think about them constantly, they are euphoric.
This is as close as a Narcissist will ever get to feeling love.
They start to disappear more frequently and they give you the silent treatment in an attempt to create distance.
This kind of idolization is what others would call infatuation.
The victim is likely so caught up in all the attention and is usually thinking at this point, that they have found their soul-mate.
As the Narcissist withdraws, the target starts to cling and your demands for his attention and your need to understand what’s happening, grate on his nerves.
The harder you cling the more the Narcissist pulls away.