Internet dating and the chase
You get those butterflies in your tummy every time you see that special person.Part of the giddiness is feeling unsure of how things are going, with an overall positive vibe.
So if you want to get a girl’s attention online and even get her chasing you, show you’re not like the others. Show her that if a girl is going to win you over, she’s got to be special.
Here are some reasons guys love the thrill of the chase: At first glance, chasing does not seem like a lazy activity. When I'm chasing a girl there is no pressure to succeed.
So, when a girl calls me "cute," I can assume my chase is over and I can call it quits.
But once I actually started dating her, my buddy was no longer in the picture.
We were both comfortable with how things were going, so there was no longer "breaking news" that she said she'd be attending a certain party, along with the excitement and hope that went along with it.